Literally, a bone appearing in a piece of marinated grilled meat. Figuratively, an unwanted intermediary in a relationship between two people.
Are you sure you guys want me to come on your weekend trip? I really don't want to be a kabab mein haddi when lau is happening.
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A person who gets in the way of two people realizing a relationship, usually sexual or to do with love. Basically, "two's a company, three's a crowd."
A kebab is typically spicy skewered meat, and a haddi is a bone. When you bite into a kebab, you don't want to find a haddi. Similarly... well, you do the metaphorical extension.
Binky: That Mukund was such a kebab mai haddi. He came and sat between Pinky and me in the theater and talked throughout the movie.
Extraneous; intruding; fifth wheel; third leg.
Amar: Suresh has had no luck putting kai on Reshma.
Gopal: That's because Latha is being a total kabab me haddi and never leaving them alone!
Gopal: That's because Latha is being a total kabab me haddi and never leaving them alone!